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Tuesday, February 05, 2008
"""""IF A MAN WANTS YOU> >

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve ,
then heck no, you can't "be friends."
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.

Do not make him into a quasi-god.

He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord!

If he cheated with you, he'llcheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you, ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...notsupplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman>PREPARE.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN""""

I was browsing tru my friendster message and i found the above from Roy's sister.
Eventhough the date stated 04/10/2007, i still kept it in the inbox.
And "the above" made me RETHINK.

Mayb i want something else. NOT someone else.
Something nice, different, new.
How do i elaborate this in words...hmmm
alright..i want something much more sweeter than what i have now.
Im just a normal human created by up above.
And every of his human creations are not perfect.
And im sure everyone, every single one, wants something more than what they have now.
They wants something higher.

In my words.i want something else means..
I want that moment, where things goes perfectly awesome.
With nothing that can stop the moment.
The moment of perfection.
I missed those days.
Where tears dont shed.
Songs of sadness dont sing.
Hatred dont bloom.

I know you are there/here.
but you seems far.
i cant feel you.
near

I want..
The tears of joy.Tears of laughing too much.
Songs of happiness. Friends.love
Feeling missed.

I long for that moment.
BUT working 12 hours a day can't bring myself to moments like that.
And the other half, is enjoying without giving what i want into consideration.
Call me selfish, ego,too much.
but i missed it..

i missed him.
i missed us.

i missed YOU.