 *Nur' Ain Madzlan *often misunderstood *frequent mood swings *frequent anxiety attacks *addicted to green apples mail/msn: flubbery_blue@hotmail.com |
Wednesday, September 12, 2007
Abstract from the The Oprah Winfrey show.1: Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. - I ve been standing up for him all the time. But did he? I dunt know. 2: Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. - Ive been trying my best to change myself. This includes the attitude, the character, the dressings. You name it.Everything. 3: Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. - I ve always wanted the relationship to be better. Better than better. Better than good. Greater than great. Stronger than strong. 4: You cannot change a man's behavior.Change comes from within. - I've always wanted to change him into someone who really puts me on top. In to someone really independent, someone better than what he is now. Conclusion- All this has to stop. Because , again abstract from Oprah Winfrey show 1: "If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. 2: If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. 3: Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Because... 4: Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. And lastly should i follow this last advice?... 5: Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need I guess i need to take the relationship slowly and try to calm down before making any decision. I really love the bond.really. and not forgetting... Him...... Happy Fasting people.. |